Six Ways to Make People Like You 

Six Ways to Make People Like You. If you want people to like you ...
Rule 1: Become genuinely interested in other people.
" Do this and you will be welcome anywhere."
" You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you."
" Ask questions to other people, questions that they would enjoy answering."
This is a great way to know someone for the first time. Because you are know like what they are like and a history of them. I like meeting new people because it's fun and you get to have a lot of friends.
You can have new adventures with them. Also memories that you won't forget. get to know them first and then you tell them about yourself. Ask questions about then. But keep in mind if they are personal let them know if they are okay with it. For example the questions can be really simple or it can be with long stories answer. I would like to put this rule in play today so i can make friends.

Rule 2: Smile. " Actions speak louder than words, and a smile says, "I like you. You make me happy. I'm glad to see you." " You don't feel like smiling? Then force yourself to smile." " It creates happiness in the home, foster good will in business, and is the countersign ( witness or indication ) of friends."  I always like to smile no matter what. I'm a happy person all the time, but if you see me sad and try to make me smile i would and also thank you for that. Smile it doesn't hurt to try it once in a while. When you are sad make a fake smile it's so much easier to tell people you are sad. Make people wonder why you are smiling. Don't let dumb things destroy your happiness. Whatever happens always keep a smile with you. Don't let that thing that is bothering you bring you down. Behind a smile is everything you won't understand. Just smile and let it go. Smile will bring you happiness in your world and others. Smile. Rule 3: Remember names. " A man's is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language." " If you don't remember names, you are headed for trouble." This to me is important because i wouldn't like it if they forgot my name after a long time knowing that person. Knowing a persons name is really important because they people will know that you know them and will like to be friends with them. Names are like a life to someone the thing that represents them. There are a lot of people that call other people different names, when the person only wants to be called by his/her name. When you know someones name you greet  them well. Names represents identity to that person. Identity cant be found unless you have a name.
How to remember names...
1. Trust Yourself

2. Seeing Faces

3. Using Sound Tricks

4. Hear the Sounds Repeated

5. See the Spelling Visually 

                                                                                 6. Writing it Down

                                                                                 7. Keeping Records 
Rule 4: Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves. "If you aspire to be a good conversations, be an attentive listener." " Remember that the man you are talking to is a hundred times more interested in himself and his wants and hid problems than he is in you and your problems. This rule is really important because it's the truth many people have to listen to others because that's the only why they would listen.  Be a good listener your ears will never get you in trouble. If they ask you about something you talked about you can tell them everything. Don't judge and put negative attitude on them. Being a good listener many people can trust you with the stuff and they will want you to listen to their problems.
5 Active Listening Tips:

• Stay Focus 
• Really Listen  
• Allow for period of silence 
• From time to time repeat what they had told you 
• Understand the emotions behind the words   

Rule 5: Talk in terms of the other man's interest. " The royal road to man's heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures most." This means to me that give people the opportunity to talk about him self. Talk about something interesting and not boring.  The quite you stay when someone is talking to you the more attention you are paying to that person. Once you talk to someone you will get to know them well that it will be the best feeling you will have because you know someone new. Sometimes when we talk to someone we don't need their advice we can just need someone to listen to us.  The less you talk to someone the more you are hurt. Why? Because the person you used to talk to is now gone and not talking to him/her no more.

Rule 6: Make the other person feel important-and do it sincerely. " The desire to be important in the deepest urge in human nature."( John Dewey ) " Helping people feel important and appreciated works magic." Be patient and wait for the worst to get the best. What makes people feel the magic is not happiness you feel when you are with them, but the pain that they are not with you. Don"t waste your time on someone who dose'nt make time for you. If they love you they will find a way . Not a excuse.
Reflection: The way i like to make people like you is Rule 2 Smile. Because that is what people are looking for when they are talking to someone. Smile makes people like you more. A smile can light up people days because they know you are not sad or unhappy. Keep your head high, keep your chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling, because life is a beautiful thing and there is so much to smile about. Smile like you never cried, fight like you never lost, love like you never been hurt, and live like there is no tomorrow. Never regret something that made you smile. I will like to keep doing this when people talk to me because smiling is a nice thing to do when someone is going through a bad day. A smile is like sunlight through a dark window.